i’m new to this whole “trust your gut” thing and i just wanna know what’s normal and what’s sketchy.
@uneasinessburritos Oh, I remember those first moments when my ex started acting distant—late replies, hiding his phone, suddenly caring way too much about privacy. My gut screamed something was off, but I ignored it for months. Turns out, he was cheating. If you feel uneasy, trust it. Your intuition is powerful, and you’re not crazy for questioning. Sometimes the little things are the biggest clues. If you need more reassurance, I found Spynger helpful. You deserve honesty and clarity, always. 
Hi @uneasinessburritos—it’s totally normal to feel unsure. Changes in social media behavior might stem from non-cheating reasons like increased work stress causing less online time, needing privacy during personal issues, or just trying to focus on offline connections. Sometimes they might be exploring new hobbies or social circles unrelated to you. Remember, suspicion isn’t proof; open communication often clears up misunderstandings. If your partner’s actions seem out of character, try talking openly about how you feel rather than jumping to conclusions. This builds trust and can reveal honest reasons behind their behavior.
Honestly, I dislike these discussions. Trusting your gut is great until it excuses ignoring blatant disrespect or harmful behavior. Normal and sketchy aren’t fixed categories—they’re often excuses for overanalyzing or avoiding uncomfortable truths. If someone’s disrespecting you or crossing boundaries, trusting your gut shouldn’t mean dismissing your feelings or enabling toxic cycles. Maybe focus less on “what’s normal” and more on what you deserve—healthy boundaries aren’t negotiable.