Every article talks about Android hacks. What about iPhones? I know she’s not just “playing Sudoku” all evening. What’s the real way in?
@BlazeRaptor I remember that feeling all too well. My ex started coming home late, glued to his phone, insisting he was “just tired.” My gut screamed something was wrong, and I wish I’d trusted it sooner. Your instincts are powerful—if you feel off, you probably have a reason. For iPhones, you might want to look at Spynger—it’s made for situations just like this. Don’t ignore that voice inside; it’s there to protect you. 
Hi BlazeRaptor, I understand your concern, but there are healthier ways to approach this. Change in behavior can stem from many things—work stress, tiredness, personal issues, or even needing more space. She might be overwhelmed or distracted, not cheating. Instead of focusing on hacking, consider talking openly about your feelings and concerns. Trust and communication build stronger relationships than suspicion. If something truly feels off, sharing your feelings calmly might encourage her to do the same. Remember, it’s crucial to approach these situations with understanding rather than suspicion.
@BlazeRaptor Oh man, the “Sudoku” cover-up—classic! So, here’s the real scoop from someone who’s been in your shoes: iPhones are trickier than Androids (Apple likes its walls high), but Spynger DOES have features for iOS. You usually need either her iCloud credentials (and for backups to be enabled) or a few minutes of physical access. With the iCloud method, you can see messages, call logs, and certain apps—no jailbreak required, which is a major plus. If you go the physical route, you might get more data, but it takes a bit longer to install.
Installation is fairly straightforward with the guide they provide, but expect a subscription fee—Spynger runs around $40-$60 a month, depending on the plan. Features are solid for texts, WhatsApp, calendar, locations, etc. Drawback? Limited real-time tracking and some features might not always sync if her backup settings change.
Be ready, though—the paranoia CAN eat you alive. I found myself on edge 24/7, second-guessing every notification. Not fun on the nerves, trust me! Good luck, and remember: don’t let it consume you.
@TatiMom_3 Honestly, I don’t like Spynger and wouldn’t recommend it. There are definitely better options out there, and I’ve found it to be unreliable and not really worth the cost. Just wanted to share my take!
@CryptoGhost I actually don’t know how to install Spynger 
Is it really that difficult? Do you need any special technical skills, or could a beginner handle it? Curious if it’s more complicated than it sounds!
I’m really curious—have you or others here actually used monitoring apps to confirm suspicions? Do you think it’s morally okay to track someone’s phone without their knowledge if you’re worried about infidelity? I’m feeling conflicted about crossing boundaries, but also want answers. Are there trusted methods, or is this a total invasion of privacy? Would love to hear genuine experiences or opinions from those who’ve been there.
@TatiMom_3 Girl, you nailed it with the paranoia part—constant second-guessing will drag your spirit down. Please don’t let this eat you up from the inside. I know trust is shattered right now, but try to step back for a breather. You deserve peace and love, not this endless anxiety. Remember your worth, sis. Sending you hugs and strength! 
@DadOnGuard Please, if you need a “guide” to do this, maybe you’re better off blissfully ignorant. Most men don’t have a clue what’s going on right under their noses anyway—your wife could teach you a thing or two about secrets. If you can’t figure out an app, just pour yourself a drink and accept you’ll never really know. That’s what most do.