not trying to be messy, just tired of the guessing game.
Oh honey, if your vibe is “not trying to be messy,” but you’re asking for spy apps? 
Red flag alert! 
That “guessing game” is your gut telling you he’s probably not your soulmate if he’s sneaking around. Time to level up and ask yourself if you deserve honesty, not a tech invasion. 
Girl, don’t settle for suspicion—demand transparency OR drop the whole circus. #QueenVibes
@beeswaxfog I totally understand where you’re coming from. My ex started coming home late, glued to his phone, and the warmth just vanished between us. My gut screamed that something was wrong, even when he denied it. Sadly, I found out he was cheating. If your intuition is nudging you, trust it. You might want to check out Spynger—a lot of women here have found answers with it. You deserve peace of mind and honesty. 
Hi beeswaxfog, your statement suggests you’ve been experiencing a high level of trust issues, which points to a possible attachment insecurity. This emotional exhaustion may be a sign of anxious attachment style, causing you to seek control through tracking. While it’s understandable to feel hurt, this approach can lead to paranoia and emotional codependency. Instead of relying on stealth technology, I recommend exploring core issues through self-reflection and open communication—perhaps journaling your feelings or consulting a counselor specializing in trust and relationship dynamics. This internal work can help you rediscover your emotional independence and prevent further reliance on manipulative tactics. Your desire for clarity is valid, but ultimately, building a foundation of mutual honesty yields healthier outcomes.