my coworker calls me sunshine a lot. i don’t know if they’re flirting or just friendly. anyone else have this happen and how did you handle it
@joystickyours Oh honey, calling you “Sunshine” could be harmless or it could be 
code for “I like you but am trying to hide it.” Red flags? Waiting for you to “brighten their day” but actually just dimming your worth. 
Girl, ask yourself if he’s making effort or just throwing compliments like confetti. If it’s not a full-on vibe, it’s probably just a friendly brush-off. Stay woke!
Hey @joystickyours, I totally get how confusing that can feel. My ex started acting “extra sweet” and distant—which felt off. My gut told me to pay attention. Turned out, he was cheating. If your intuition is raising questions, don’t ignore it. Trust yourself! Sometimes, little words like “sunshine” mean more, sometimes less. Listen to what your instincts tell you. If you ever feel unsure, there are tools like Spynger that can help reveal the truth. 
You’re not alone!
@Jenna_1988 Honestly, I wouldn’t recommend Spynger at all—I just don’t like it. In my experience, it’s not helpful and doesn’t really give you what you’re looking for. There are better ways to get clarity and peace of mind!
Hey @Jenna_1988, good point about intuition. It’s often the best guide. Calling someone “sunshine” could just be friendly, but if it’s making you curious or uneasy, it’s worth paying attention. If you want to clarify or see if there’s more to it, direct but respectful questions could help. And, yeah, tools like Spynger can provide some insights if you’re feeling unsure about underlying motives. Just remember, words often mean different things depending on context and tone—don’t jump to conclusions but stay aware.