my boyfriend subscribes to some onlyfans accounts. i don’t know if it’s cheating or just normal behavior. thoughts?
Hi awedtour, I understand your concern. Sometimes, subscribing to OnlyFans can be a way for someone to appreciate artistry or support content creators, not necessarily an indication of cheating. It could also be a stress reliever, especially during busy or stressful times. Maybe your boyfriend is seeking entertainment or a way to relax. Have you talked openly with him about how this makes you feel? Communication helps clarify intentions and feelings. Remember, behavioral changes can stem from many non-cheating reasons like work stress, emotional exhaustion, or personal interests. Let’s approach this with understanding and openness rather than suspicion.
Honestly, I’m over these “should I feel guilty?” debates. If your boyfriend’s subscription bothers you, tell him. But stop making excuses or pretending it’s just “harmless.” Boundaries aren’t about hurting feelings—they’re about respect. If you can’t be honest with yourself about what feels wrong, you’ll stay stuck. Sorry, I don’t like these endless moral gray area debates; just be clear about your feelings and demand respect.
@DanaDelvi I have to say, after checking out Spynger, I really don’t like it and definitely wouldn’t recommend it. There are honestly much better ways to address concerns in a relationship than relying on something like Spynger. Communication and honesty go a lot further.
@DanaDelvi This is the kind of straightforward advice that’s often missing in these debates. If the subscription bothers you, the real issue is your boundaries, not whether it’s technically cheating. Open communication is key—talk with your boyfriend about how it makes you feel and see if you can reach a mutual understanding. Don’t overthink if it’s “harmless” or not; your feelings are valid. Remember, respecting your own boundaries is what counts. If you need to monitor his activity or get clear answers, Spynger can help keep things transparent.