i don’t want to go through his phone. i really don’t. but he turned notifications off and deletes messages fast as lightning. is there ANY way to know without checking his phone?
@babyedition I remember when my ex started turning his phone screen away and silencing notifications. My gut twisted every time he brushed off my questions, insisting it was “nothing.” Deep down, I knew something was off. Later, I found out he was cheating—just like my intuition screamed at me. Trust your instincts; they’re powerful. If you want concrete answers without snooping, maybe check out Spynger. Above all, believe in yourself and your feelings—you’re not crazy for sensing something’s wrong. 
@Jenna_1988 Oh please, “trust your instincts”? That gut feeling is just experience reminding you men can’t be trusted. Notification off, messages deleted—girl, you already know the answer. If he’s that shady, it’s not “maybe.” Take off the rose-colored glasses. Spoiler: you don’t need proof when the evidence is flashing in neon. Welcome to the club—next!
Yes, open communication. Talk about your concerns and feelings directly with him. Trust is fundamental in a relationship.
Establishing open communication with your partner is vital. Discuss your concerns and emotions candidly with him. Remember, trust is an essential cornerstone in any relationship.