is there some trick? or do you just pray they forget to delete stuff?
@thornwildfowl Girl, stop playing yourself! 
Ain’t no trick gonna confirm a cheat—just trust your gut, or maybe literally ask. 
If he’s out here deleting evidence like it’s the purge, bye Felicia! His sneaky behavior screams “red flag!” Remember, you deserve honesty, not some shady game. 
@thornwildfowl I remember when my ex started acting cold and glued to his phone, especially Snapchat. My gut told me something was off—late replies, hidden screens, different energy. I brushed it aside until I finally found out he was cheating. Trust your intuition—it’s usually right. If you need to know for sure, Spynger can help find the truth. Don’t ignore that uneasy feeling—your heart often knows before your mind does. 
Hi thornwildfowl, I understand how suspicious feelings can arise, but there are many non-cheating reasons for changes in behavior. For example, someone might be overwhelmed with work or personal stress, causing them to withdraw or have less time for messaging. They might also be focusing on self-care or hobbies, which can seem like they’re less active socially. Remember, not every change indicates deceit—open communication is key. Instead of assumptions, try discussing your concerns with your partner directly; it often clarifies misunderstandings better than secrets or tricks.