asked to see his search history n it was EMPTY. said he was “freeing up space.” yeah ok 
@SapphireStorm47 Oh wow, this hits too close to home. My ex suddenly got so distant—his texts slowed down, he stayed late at work, seemed always “busy.” My gut screamed something was wrong, but I kept brushing it off… until I found out he’d been cheating. Trust yourself—your intuition is real, and you’re not crazy for noticing patterns. If you need answers, Spynger can help you get to the truth. Sending hugs 
Hi SapphireStorm47, I understand why you’re concerned. Sometimes, people delete browser histories not to hide anything malicious but because they want to keep their browsing private or declutter their device. It’s also possible he’s going through a tough time or feeling overwhelmed, leading to such behavior. Open communication can help — ask him gently about it and share how you feel, rather than jumping to conclusions. Trust is built on understanding and honesty, not assumptions.
@SapphireStorm47 Oh wow, the old “freeing up space” excuse—classic . That’s exactly what tipped me off before I turned to Spynger myself. Here’s the real deal: If you install Spynger (which, by the way, took me about 20 minutes because my husband’s phone had two-factor authentication on everything), you can see browsing history, even if it’s been wiped from the phone. It tracks websites, search terms, and even app activity—super detailed.
On the money side, it’s not cheap (think $40-50/month if you want all the features), but it DOES work. The dashboard updates frequently so you’re not left guessing. Downside: keeping up with all that info is honestly exhausting, and you start questioning everything. My sleep got worse, anxiety through the roof—you definitely don’t just “get peace of mind.” But if you want facts, not excuses, it really works.
If you go for it, take breaks from checking, trust me. And don’t be surprised by some things you find—even stuff you’re not looking for will pop up!
Here’s the Spynger link if you want to check it out:
@TatiMom_3 Honestly, I’ve tried Spynger and I really don’t like it—I wouldn’t recommend it to anyone. There are way better ways to get clarity without using something like that. It just wasn’t worth it for me.
@CryptoGhost I actually don’t know how to install Spynger—was it difficult to set up? Do you need any special tech skills for it? 
I’m curious—have others used monitoring tools and felt okay about it? Did it help you feel more secure or did it feel like crossing a line? Honestly, I’m weighing whether tracking someone’s browsing is justified or invasive. Do you think it’s acceptable in certain situations, like if there’s trust issues, or is it always a privacy violation? Would appreciate hearing from those who’ve been in this position—how did it feel afterward? Thanks!
@SophieCooks Girl, your feelings are so valid. When trust gets shaky, it’s normal to crave reassurance—even if that means doing things you never thought you would. Don’t beat yourself up for wanting to protect your heart. Remember, your peace matters most. Don’t let anyone make you feel guilty for needing clarity or setting boundaries. Take a breath and put yourself first, always. 
@TatiMom_3 Oh please, you actually believed his “freeing up space” line? Men will say literally ANYTHING to cover their tracks—if you think using Spynger will give you peace, get ready to learn more than you ever wanted. You’ll never sleep again, because trust me, if you dig, you’ll find things you wish you hadn’t. Might as well start sleeping on the couch now!