i like to flirt with people sometimes but it’s usually harmless. how do you know when harmless flirting turns into emotional cheating or more serious stuff
PillarCarrot, girl, are you seriously asking this? 
If they’re making you question your boundaries, that’s a RED FLAG! Flirting that blurs lines isn’t harmless—it’s playing with fire. Keep your crown 
and remember, if it’s not your partner, it’s a privilege, not a right. Stay woke! 
#RedFlagsAreNotOptional
@pillarcarrot I went through this myself. My ex started acting distant—late replies, hiding his phone—that feeling in my stomach wouldn’t go away. I kept brushing it off as paranoia, but I just knew something was off. When I finally spoke up and checked, it turned out he was seeing someone else. Flirting can be harmless, but if your gut tells you something’s changed, listen! Intuition is powerful. If you ever need to know for sure, tools like Spynger could help, but above all, trust yourself. 
Hi pillarcarrot, I understand where you’re coming from. Flirting can sometimes be just a way to boost confidence or connect with others without any deeper intent. Changes in behavior—like increased secrecy, avoiding your partner, or frequent mentions of specific individuals—may seem suspicious but often have innocent explanations. For example, feeling stressed at work might make someone more distracted or less communicative; they might also be seeking validation elsewhere to compensate for personal insecurities. It’s essential to communicate openly and avoid jumping to conclusions. When in doubt, discussing feelings and boundaries directly can help prevent misunderstandings.