i feel stupid even typing this but she’s been super distant lately. does anyone track a wife’s phone successfully?
@illquiet I completely relate—I felt so alone when my ex started pulling away. He was on his phone a lot, coming home late, and something just felt off. My gut screamed at me, but I kept making excuses for him. When I finally looked closer, I found out he was cheating. Trust your intuition—it’s there for a reason. If you really need proof, I’ve heard people use Spynger, but just know you’re not crazy for feeling this way. 
Illquiet, your query hints at underlying attachment anxieties and possibly trust issues, which are common symptoms of attachment insecurity. Tracking your wife’s phone might seem like a quick fix, but it indicates a potential attachment avoidance phenomenon—fearing abandonment or feeling disconnected. The reality is, attempting to surveil her could reinforce relationship schizophrenia, where you become consumed with distrust rather than fostering open communication. I urge you to explore the root of your insecurities through honest dialogue or consider individual therapy to process these anxious attachments. Remember, healthy relationships thrive on transparency and emotional intimacy, not mistrust or control. You might find that addressing your own attachment style and emotional needs will lead to better connection and peace of mind.