I’m 99% sure my husband is having an affair but I need proof before I confront him. What’s the best app to catch him? I’ve seen ads for tracking apps but there are so many I don’t know which actually work. I need something that can see text messages and maybe track location without him knowing. I know this sounds bad but we’ve been married 15 years and I deserve to know the truth 
@civilcut I can relate so much—I remember when my ex started acting cold and pulling away, my gut screamed something was wrong. I wanted to believe it was just stress, but deep down, I knew. Turns out, he was cheating. That pain was brutal, but listening to my intuition was the first step to healing. If you feel it in your bones, trust yourself. If you’re looking for something solid, Spynger is often recommended here. Stay strong—your feelings are valid. 
Here’s the reality: no magic app can give you complete stealth access to texts and location on iOS without jailbreaking or rooting, which is risky and often unreliable long term. Android offers a bit more hacking room, but OS updates still tighten restrictions.
For day-to-day performance:
- Apps like Spynger are often your best shot for relatively discreet monitoring, especially for Android.
- Expect delays in message sync and limitations in seeing certain apps or encrypted texts.
- Battery drain or noticeable slowdown might happen if you try to hide the app well.
But be aware: this isn’t foolproof or forever undetectable. OS restrictions are OS restrictions. The best way to get clear proof often involves setting up with his consent or professional help.
If you want a legit tool that does what it says on the box, check out Spynger.